By Katherine Zammuto
After doing my Podcast Kat on the Loose – Sex, Dating & Relationships for 3 years now, I have learned a lot from my guests and feedback from listeners. Of course, I also learned from making mistakes myself, so here I share some of the ways we can spot boys and players who are not really interested in having a relationship, from real men who are mature and ready to commit to one woman.
1. Boys love endlessly scrolling through dating apps and dreaming about all the potential women they might date. They like quantity and variety because they are insecure and simply trying to feed their egos.
Men on the other hand like dating with intention, meaning they are focused on finding the One woman who is right for them.
2. Boys waste a lot of your time with silly chats, endless banter and BS… while men will get your number, talk to you, and make firm plans for a nice first date. With a man, you will not have to guess about anything, they always let you know clearly where you stand.
3. Boys are always afraid of talking about their feelings and don’t like making too many plans for the future, because they tend to change their minds about things all the time…
Men have no issues expressing themselves and letting you know clearly how they feel, and when in a relationship, they will make firm plans with you so you always know where you stand, because they are mature enough to know exactly what they want.
4. When things don’t work out, boys run away, ghost you, change the way they treat you, go hot and cold, and disappear or break up over the phone because they are cowards and do not like facing you in the eyes.
Men will always let you know where you stand and how they feel about you, even if they change their minds. They will look you in the eyes and explain exactly what is going on, the good and the bad, simply because this is what real adults do!
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